There is nothing my children hate more than having a talk with mommy. My children hate having a talk with mommy when they do something wrong.
I learned this when I was a daycare worker. This technique works very well. I learned how to be a better mom but now I want to find my dream.
When my kids do something that annoys me I start to count. I know when I am about to lose it because I begin to laugh. The reason I laugh is because I cannot believe the ridiculousness of the statements made in order to get out of trouble.
I sit my kids down and I make sure that they are paying attention to me. Then I begin the talk. I ask them to explain to me the reason why they felt what they did was a good idea. I normally listen to the whole story without interrupting them.
I listen to everything and then I tell them why what they did was not a good idea. They normally they do not do it again.
I told my husband the worst punishment I could ever give them is the sound of my voice.
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